..and out of sanity.
I lost my job around Christmas time due to inconsistent Human Resource practices. I had walking pneumonia and Hubby had been experiencing health woes as well. Whenever I’d bring my Doctor’s notes in from either my visits or Hubby’s, I was told that “they didn’t accept consecutive days” or that “the weren’t going to accept them” at all. This eventually mounted and I ended up pointing out of their already somewhat screwy point system. It is a wonder to me that company’s such as this are not fixing the painfully obvious problems that are causing such low employee retention rates, but that’s their perogerative, I suppose. It’s now mine to find a different job and, hopefully, a better place to work.
Now that I’ve gotten that out of my system, there are a few things I’ve learned about myself in the past few weeks of being without a permanent source of income. The first and most overpowering lesson has been that society equates how much money you make with how successful or even how important you are as a human being. I am not currently bringing any money in so I have lost value to some people. It has been eye opening and has taught me that these people were not worth holding on to, but it has been painful. My brother has struggled with unemployment as well and I fear that I treated him in this manner, even though my intentions were to try to encourage him to find a job. The problem? He was doing everything he could to find work, as I am doing now. It’s simply not out there.
I believe the problem is a culmination of poor education in our country combined with poor Human Resources and management practices. People are changing their expectations of their future employees and, at the same time, our standards of education are dropping. This conflict is causing a frustrating situation in which one must possess a Bachelor’s Degree to be considered for even the most basic of work.
Not only has our country’s educational standards dropped, but I feel the expectations of employers has become somewhat unrealistic. Instead of creating an environment where people can learn and grow into the ideal employee, every employer wants their newly hired employees to already be that person: polished, consisting of the company’s specific (but vaguely stated) values, and professional in every mannerism. Instead, why not offer the employees things such as mentoring programs where “veteran” employees can take them under their wing to teach them things like customer service, how to treat your coworkers with respect, and how to maintain professionalism even in the face of outright disrespect.
Instead, employers expect you to know all of this. I am always blown away by the fact that it is now a given to have every job description followed by the statement “experience required”. This tells me that the company is unwilling to take an interest in its employees to the point of providing and nurturing an atmosphere where experience can be obtained and skills honed. When I see this statement, I cringe and detest every stroke of ink I have to put on the resume (out of sheer desperation). If I had the choice, I would not be applying for a job posting with a company such as this.
On top of these frustrations, I live in an area that is highly nepotistic. I would have a better chance at getting a job if I knew the CEO’s daughter than if I had all the qualifications. Sad, but very true in Ye Olde Timey Towne of the MidWest. Factories are abundant here, but because we live in a Right-To-Work (for less) state, they treat their employees worse than the product they are trying to make. And don’t get me started on how they could save so much money and overtime if they hired people with enough common sense to actually care about the product they were making.
All in all, work sucks. Because of this, I want to go back into Healthcare. I want to make a difference in someone else’s life. If no matter where I go to work I am going to run across nepotism, favortism, unfair work practices, and poor Human Resource practices.. at least let me make a difference in the life of someone else while I am there. That alone will give me the sanity I need to continue working. In the meantime, I need to find sanity while I’m not working.